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Held Captive by your baby Daddy

I spoke to a young lady this morning who felt as though she is being held captive in a relationship with her babies daddy. She was a young mother and now she has grown tremendously personally and she is getting ready to receive a four year degree. She didn't allow the fact that she became a mother too soon to stop her, but the babies father didn't move forward. He comes up with excuses why he won't do more to support her and their daughters. This young lady has her own place she is not on the government system, she is working and she is finishing up school. She feels like she is frustrated because she is not sure how to get free from his chains. He knows he has been blessed to find a wonderful young lady and he doesn't want to let her go so that she can be the woman God has designed her to be.

There are many young ladies in this situation, and don't know how to get free.  Many times the men will become abusive to intimidate the young ladies.  If there are caring parents for the ladies to go to they don't want to get them involved. So what are some of the options? The young lady I am referring to is planning to move once she graduates from college, but this guy wants to move too. She wants him to be a part of her daughter's life but she is not so sure she wants him to be a part of her life as a couple anymore. This was her first boyfriend and she is feeling confused by the whole situation.

I would suggest making the plan to move but don't say anymore about it, the less he knows the better it is to implement the plan. If she is able to go back home I would consider that because that would force him to have to stay someplace else if he is at her house a lot. It will also protect her from possible harm from him. He has a right to see his child, but he has no right to hold this young lady captive because he is the father of her daughter.  Ladies, the main thing you don't want to do is to get so overwhelmed you can't think. There is always a solution to every problem. You might not want to get others involved but keeping the situation to yourself doesn't help. There are people who truly care for you and you should open up to those you know who do care. Don't travel this journey alone. If you keep it to yourself you will continue to feel like you are being held captive. Freedom is never free it is something you have to pay for in some way. I have said in the past that you have to decide if you want, to be free or stay in captivity. Only you can decide the answer to that, and I know it is not an easy question to answer, but it is one that you will have to address.

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