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And Then What?

Hi Ladies, I want to talk to you for a moment about "then what?" Have you ever been in a situation with someone you loved that was doing wrong? But you decided to overlook the behavior because he might leave. Have you ever asked yourself if that person is treating you with disrespect, not loving you sincerely or making you feel like you are single while in a relationship, what would make you stay in that type of situation that is wrong for you? I think it is the "then what" that keep many of women where they shouldn't be. Ok, so let's say you tell him to leave and he does....then what? You cry because he left......and then what? You find yourself alone without the one you thought you loved and the one you made your mind believe loved you, and so I ask this question again....then what? 

Answer.... Then, what you do is discover you will survive, maybe you didn't love that man as much as you thought you did, you find a peace that surpasses all your understanding and then what you do is live the life that you had been missing out on while you were trying to make someone love you who didn't want to love. The person that had been looking for his soul mate finds you and he turns out to be everything you desired. The "then what" can rob you from a life that could bring so much substance to you, if you know in your heart you are not where you should be don't think about the negative "then what" begin thinking about the positive "then what" you deserve a life filled with peace, love and happiness but it is your decision to make if you will receive it. 

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Anonymous on Monday, June 11, 2012 8:40 AM
I was in a "then what" relationship about 25 years ago. You get that feeling that you don't want to be by yourself or tell yourself he's not so bad after all. After a while you learn that your happiness and self-esteem is more important than dealing with disrepect selfishness.
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