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"Let go of the offense"

Ladies, if we keep it real I think everyone of us could identify an area in our lives that need a little help, and I am going to be honest with you I know there are some issues that need to be worked out with me, and I have no problem with putting the work in that is needed to make me a better person. I do a lot of soul searching so that I can always to be a person that is real, and honest not only with others but also with myself. What good would it be to give everything to or for others and leave myself out? So in my recent soul searching I thought I had a problem with forgiveness because I would say I have forgiven someone but the offense would pop back into my head and I would get angry all over again at the person, but it wasn't the person that brought up the issue again it was something that reminded me of the offense. In my soul searching with this matter I have discovered that I had forgiven the person, but I had not forgiven the offense, let me explain briefly what I mean, if an apology is needed an offense has taken place such as a lie, or betrayal, hurt, pain etc. you get the message right? So in forgiving the offender I must also forgive the offense or else it will come back to haunt me at a later date. When I think about this I think about a scripture where God is asking Satan what was He doing and his response was going to and fro on the earth looking for an opportunity to kill, steal or destroy. If we don't let go of the offense we are allowing ourselves to be held captive.  When we truly forgive someone we must also forgive the offense so that we can be set free from the whole ordeal. I would like you to think about an area in your life you might be struggling with, have you been offended by someone, are you being held captive by the offense and can't understand why? Look at the whole picture and be true to yourself and know that you have forgiven the offender and the offense and set yourself free! Once I understood why the matter kept coming to surface again and again I was able to look at the offense and forgive that as well as the offender. 

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